Let me copy an example from Stephen Covey book.I will be discussing it from different perspective. A father with his children came and sat in a garden .Children were behaving like monsters , disturbing everyone they came along.They were howling , shouting and creating nuisance.And their father was sitting without any attempt to calm down his children.When Stephen's patience broke down , he finally asked children's father as to why he is not stopping them from disturbing others.That person replied that children's mother and his beloved wife has expired few minutes back.And that they are not able to digest it.Now , how many times do we actually try to know a person if his reaction does not come under so called 'acceptable'. We simply dislike them and move forward.I dont think anybody wants to be disliked.Even if he wants to be disliked ,may be he had his past which made him behave or think like that.
Often we people, see the tip of an iceberg and react for the same and move forward.Rightly so , we dont have time for ourselves ,how can we simply view things from others perspective?But that does not give us any right to hate or dislike someone.I will share some more examples that will light the fact that we should not blame people for what they are not responsible.
heyyy..I perfectly agree wid you man..!!and the example u gave here is just awsome..!We are no one to judge someone as we never know what the other person is going through..!!
ReplyDeletepushkar bhaiya, wat u hav written is wat they teach in MBA under behavioural courses. i m amazed to see when everybdy in b-schools run from these courses/concepts, guys like you actually sit in a bookstore and out of all possible interesting things, you read about these crappy stuff, kyun bhai itne kitne frustaa gaye ho. :)
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